About Us

 Have you dreamed of getting married on the Beach? or one of our beautiful parks or a Church wedding? I can help fulfill that dream

Originally from New York, then lived in Florida for many years. My husband and I relocated to North 

Carolina to be closer to our family. Our Sons and daughter, daughters-in-laws, son-ln-law and 10 grandchildren and love everything about living here.

I have performed many wedding ceremonies I just love all of my brides and grooms. I feel so honored to be with couples at their happiest moments in life. For me, it is the best experience and for the wonderful couples I have been so fortunate to meet, they have told me that I have made their special occasion even more special. WOW that is so fantastic!! The areas that I am most closest to are in the Wilmington, Southport, Oak Island area, Kure Beach, Ocean Isle beach. Little River, South Carolina

  Working with couples has been so much fun. Coming together to make sure their vows represent them. Best part is getting to know each couple, how they met, stories about their lives so that the vows can be very personal. This day is about them and making it happen the way they have always dreamed it should be. 

As a non-denominational Ordained Minister we can perform religious, spiritual,interfaith, secular, same sex or civil ceremonies.  

This is your day and with my help, we will make this very special time in your life your way.

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A personalized draft of your vows are sent to you ahead of time and written specifically for your relationship., you can add or change anything you like.

We can meet in person if you are in the are. We have unlimited phone calls, emails, ond text.

Performing the vows on your wedding day at your venue

Sign and fill out the required legal documents and send to the register of deeds in your county  

Collaborate with vendors you have chosen for your wedding or refer vendors to you

Vow Renewals

Optional Rehearsal usually the day before the ceremony

Sand Ceremony, Unity Candle, Ring Warming

Rules for a Happy Marriage

  1. Never both be angry at the same time
  2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire
  3. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.
  4. If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.
  5. Never bring up mistakes of the past.
  6. Neglect the whole world rather than each  other
  7. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
  8. At least once every day try to say one kind or complimentary thing to your life's partner
  9. When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness
  10. It takes two to make a quarrel, and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking.

Number 10 is  my personal favorite!!


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My Goal is to make your wedding day

a day that is so very special for you

Your Way


My customized vows tell your love story

Your fairytale


I will be there to work with you to make sure your wedding vows are exactly what you have dreamed of

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The Wedding Lady

St James Dr, Southport , NC 28461